Choosing a specialist to work with your relationship is a significant step. My approach is structured, highly specialized, and grounded in contemporary relationship research. In my practice, I treat the relationship itself as the client, rather than taking individual sides.

Moving Beyond the Content of the Arguments

When relationships hit an impasse, couples often find themselves trapped in a repetitive, exhausting cycle. In sessions, we slow these interactions down to look past the surface topics of conflict and map out the underlying relational pattern.

Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method principles, we take an experiential approach. Rather than just talking about your problems, we work in the present moment to help you both identify your defensive maneuvers and safely express the core emotional needs underneath. The goal is to cultivate new, constructive experiences of communication right in the room, allowing you to rebuild a functional, secure connection.

Experience and Qualifications

I am an accredited counsellor and supervisor with over 16 years of clinical experience. My commitment to the highest standards of relationship therapy extends to training other professionals in the field:

• L7 Course Creator & Lecturer: I wrote and currently teach a Level 7 CPCAB-accredited certificate program that trains qualified counsellors to become specialist couples therapists.
• Integrative Expertise: My background combines a strong Gestalt focus with advanced relationship frameworks, allowing me to tailor clinical interventions directly to your specific dynamics.

Logistics & Bookings

Sessions can be held either in-person, near Canterbury, or online. It is £60 for a 50-minute session.

• Email: hmcounselling@gmail.com
• Phone: 07833353822
• Location: In-person sessions in Chartham (near Canterbury) or online via secure video link.